I do mean that. She knows you won’t fight back and she is essentially being a bully. I’ll tell you what I was told by a man I greatly respected when I went to him looking for easy forgiveness for getting physical with me ex-wife. He sort of sneered at me because he saw through my attempts to duck responsibility for my actions (he was also working on a race car at the time which was kind of apropos for the moment) and he said “There’s worse things, sometimes they need that.”By fighting back, you mean laying hands on her? Can't bring myself to do that. I was raised around too much of that to ever want my kids to see that. Plus biblically, she being my flesh i must treat her like I'd like ro be treated. Which is not beaten up. (Re-reading that last sentence while editing made me chuckle a bit, haha)
“So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:”
Ephesians 5:28-29
Sorry if this isn't what you meant to say and I misread you.
This woman is acting like a terrorist or a cartel member. She thinks she has a monopoly on violence. She needs to see that if there is going to be violence unleashed that you can match it and that if she’s going to go full retard then she’ll have to bear the consequences of those actions.