Aaron, I commend you for doing some self reflection and checking yourself prior to finding a wife. That’s already a step in the right direction!
While money is a necessity, it isn’t as big of a deal as we make it out to be. Biblically, what few recognize is that “providing” for a wife in biblical times meant a tent or mud hut, bread, water, and some goat/lamb. Not Gucci, a BMW, and always having the latest and greatest cell phone.
Last, as others have said, you would be surprised how far a good woman can stretch your paycheck, motivate you to great heights, and always have your back. Even if that means that she has to hustle instead of being strictly focused on the home at all times.
Start looking now, and trust Yah. You’re going to be ok Brother