I see no other point in them asking for his name.
I am not getting your point
The reason they are asking for his name... Islamic culture is rather harsh on single women... they will need the covering that the man can provide...
In the normal pattern of relationships I see concubineage as giving a woman more independence, if that is what she needs. We see this in Isaiah 4:1, I believe. With that independence comes the responsibility of providing for themselves.
Sure, many full wives could support themselves independently, but should they?
Christians like to make the husband provider and idle wife at home the gold standard of marriage.
None of the above is meant to be a put down for families who are organized differently, but a lot that can be said for doing it the old fashioned way if you can in my opinion.
@rockfox, I’ve only done some quick calculations, but it seems like when a wife works, and you do the calculations, does a family come out ahead? She would need a car, car insurance, clothing, lunches, gas, full time baby sitter/daycare, and the lust goes on. The quick figures I’ve come up with, I don’t see the family coming out ahead. Then you add in your child is being raised by someone else. Your wife being a homemaker is fantastic.Oh I agree and we have sacrificed much for my wife to be a homemaker
@rockfox, I’ve only done some quick calculations, but it seems like when a wife works, and you do the calculations, does a family come out ahead? She would need a car, car insurance, clothing, lunches, gas, full time baby sitter/daycare, and the lust goes on. The quick figures I’ve come up with, I don’t see the family coming out ahead. Then you add in your child is being raised by someone else. Your wife being a homemaker is fantastic.