Says who?
Where in Scripture does it say that you have been fruitful enough when you have taken one wife?
If a farmer has three fields available and he only plants one, is he being fruitful?
Paul’s statements are completely counter to the rest of Yah’s instructions and must be seen as an anomaly, not as an option.
How many children must a man have to fulfill the command? As many as he can pull off? Some other number? Is it up to him to decide how many? What determines how many?
Do I have a choice in whom I marry or am I obligated to marry a single woman in my church if there are none other who will? If a woman wants to marry me, but has turned down single men in our congregation capable of being her husband, must I marry her? If it is wrong for me to turn her down, how is it not wrong for her to turn them down?
I really believe that Paul was offering some pragmatic advice for how to operate in the diaspora while under persecution. I think his expectation was that the restoration was on and singleness was a temporary measure.
What do you mean by restoration?
Can you not see the rise of persecution today?
How about some positive answers to the situation that don’t involve blaming the women for the present reality?
What's wrong with calling on women to repent? It is women who are choosing to delay marriage. You won't fix the present reality if you don't deal with women's partial responsibility in creating it.
Are not single women moral actors in their own life? Are they not liberated and in control of their decisions? Why if it goes badly for them are the other men at fault for not making them their wife?
How is the church turning away from false teachings and towards the truth in order to fix the sex disparity in church attendance not a positive answer?
THE STATUS QUO ISN’T WORKING!
Blaming men for the failures of women IS the status quo.
The bigger problem is that too many males should not be entrusted with the leadership of a family. Are any and all professing Christian boys acceptable to you as husbands for your daughter (I am assuming that you have at least one), or do you have standards?
Are all women to be entrusted with membership in a family? Esp. given their disproportionate ability to destroy it? Or is it only men you hold to standards?
girls were allowed to fall in love with a rascal
So you support arranged marriage then?
Many times the reason for single motherhood is that girls were allowed to fall in love with a rascal who failed to grow into the leadership position that he was given. Yes, Yah hates divorce, But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
She choose to have sex with him. 1 Peter 3 commands such women to remain in their marriage and win him to the faith by her submission. Yet you excuse her disobedience, fornication and divorce, blaming it all on men.
Over and over you refuse to hold women responsible for their own actions. This is exactly what the church at large does, blaming men while excusing women. This is a big part of the present problem behind why women sin with impunity and men avoid church.