Neither one or nor even both will be sufficient, because currently our culture is overwhelming dominated by men who are entirely unprepared to assume true headship of their families much less prepared to assume true leadership in their local or larger communities.
What is
required is for men to stand tall, swayable only by other standing-tall men whom they can count on to stand shoulder-to-shoulder with them -- and this doesn't just entail being able to collectively head to the same remote location where land is cheap and forming the equivalent of a Prepper KOA, because if the men who do that can't count on unswaying respectful cooperation from their wives under comfortable conditions, it's folly to believe they will rapidly transform into fully submissive wives just because a SHTF event occurs. The first step in individual cases, therefore, is unfortunately going to have to be
men jettisoning any desire to acquire approval from the women in their lives. Feminism has infected almost everyone, and what I observe is that the most unprepared-to-be-part-of-the-solution men (even amongst so-called patriarchy-promoting organizations like this one -- but most certainly amongst the general culture) are those men who fail to fully analyze just how dominated they may be by fear of losing their women.
Curtis A. articulated this very well a couple years ago at the Branson retreat: most men are guilty not of
adoring or
cherishing their wives, but of
idolizing them to the point of fearing either their departure or the stigma they might receive from others for not keeping their marriages together. But when a man fears this, any woman this side of the mother of our Lord will most assuredly step into that breach and turn the man into a henpecked servant who mistakenly believes himself to be an alpha top dog -- a self-acknowledged beta male is not only more self-aware than this but more likely to be useful during chaotic conditions. No society can right itself when this level of spineless cluelessness is demonstrated, as it is right now, by the vast majority of men. It is a female's nature to turn herself into the center of the universe, but it remains the responsibility of males to prevent her from being successful in such an endeavor.
The buck stops with us, and, generally speaking, we're not doing anything about that.
What is required is for men to stop devising strategies that rely on waiting around for the world to change or for women to get a clue.
or 21st Century Schizoid Mannerisms
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My incentive is an intention to kill more than two birds with one stone . . .
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