Hello everybody, My name is Tammy. I am 31 years old and happliy married. My husband and I are god loveing people. For a long time we have kept our believes to our selfs until now we are not yet a plural family but we are considering a very close friend of ours. we live and work in a area where this lifestyle is very taboo I guess you can say I was glad when I found this website I am hope that some one can help me with my confussion about this matter sorry I am a terrible typer and I never blog or get on chat lines so this is very new to me so I really don't know how to word this correctly[/size][/color] email tammyvessels@yahoo.com feel free to email
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Thank you juliab 
My husband and I have been together for fourteen years actually it will be fifteen years on december 20th. we love each other very much. The young lady we are consider bring in to our family we have known for close to twenty years, she is a very good friend. Over the years she has become a sister to me. actually to my husband she is a ex girlfriend from when they were kids, so he still has alot of feeling for her. But for some reason I don't know if I am weird for saying this but I don't feel jealous when it come to her. she is always saying we are a crazy group of friends. I guess this is one reason we are wanting her to join us. I personally love her very much and want her with us but we really don't know how all this works and we want it to work very much I hope I will learn alot from this group and maybe from some with more experience with this. I hope I don't sound foolish It is so nice to know that there are other people out in this crazy world that believe in what we believe in. I believe that our lord jesus christ brought us to this website so thank you jesus for giving us the support that we will need on the joruney of love.
My husband and I have been together for fourteen years actually it will be fifteen years on december 20th. we love each other very much. The young lady we are consider bring in to our family we have known for close to twenty years, she is a very good friend. Over the years she has become a sister to me. actually to my husband she is a ex girlfriend from when they were kids, so he still has alot of feeling for her. But for some reason I don't know if I am weird for saying this but I don't feel jealous when it come to her. she is always saying we are a crazy group of friends. I guess this is one reason we are wanting her to join us. I personally love her very much and want her with us but we really don't know how all this works and we want it to work very much I hope I will learn alot from this group and maybe from some with more experience with this. I hope I don't sound foolish It is so nice to know that there are other people out in this crazy world that believe in what we believe in. I believe that our lord jesus christ brought us to this website so thank you jesus for giving us the support that we will need on the joruney of love.
Chaplains Rose
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Welcome Tammy,
Yall have found a great site with fellow believers. I am Chaplains Rose and my Hubby is Chaplain. This is the place to go when you want to live plural marriage according to God's principles. The people here are great and they share their experiences with you and lift you up in your pursuit. The Chaplain and I also are not living as a plural family as of yet but like your and your husband we are interested in my best friend. There is no past history between then. Her and I have been friends for 27 years and we have grown very close in those years. We have been with each other thru all that life has to offer: good and bad times, happy and sad times, birth of children and grandchildren, ups and downs in our friendship and our marriages. She has been divorced for over 6 years but she is much better off without him. I would tell you that communication is a must between you and hubby and him and yalls friend and between you and her and of course between all 3 of you. I am free to talk to you anytime if you would like to compare "notes". My prayer is that things go as slow as they have to and as fast as God allows them too.
Yall have found a great site with fellow believers. I am Chaplains Rose and my Hubby is Chaplain. This is the place to go when you want to live plural marriage according to God's principles. The people here are great and they share their experiences with you and lift you up in your pursuit. The Chaplain and I also are not living as a plural family as of yet but like your and your husband we are interested in my best friend. There is no past history between then. Her and I have been friends for 27 years and we have grown very close in those years. We have been with each other thru all that life has to offer: good and bad times, happy and sad times, birth of children and grandchildren, ups and downs in our friendship and our marriages. She has been divorced for over 6 years but she is much better off without him. I would tell you that communication is a must between you and hubby and him and yalls friend and between you and her and of course between all 3 of you. I am free to talk to you anytime if you would like to compare "notes". My prayer is that things go as slow as they have to and as fast as God allows them too.
Thank you very much. I feel as if god has blessed me just finding this site. It has been very hard on me not having some one to talk to about my feeling on this matter. right now I just got back from going out with my husband it is kind of late. so I am getting ready to go to bed and my husband it next door saying goood night to my soon to be sisterwife, I really hope so, at least I know that if it is gods will that it will happen. we both love her very much. I just wish that more people could feel the kind of love I feel every day from my husband. Tom was a real blessing for me and now the lord has giving us another blessing. let me ask you this does the newness ever ware off I don't think any of us three has had a wink of sleep since we asked her about this we all stay up every night up till about three in morning trying to fingure out how all this is going to work but at least i know that god has shown me a way to figure it all out by lending me to this wonderful site so thank you very much. 
Tammy,
Welcome to Biblical Families. I hope that we can be a support system for you. I hope that you will feel free to ask questions and give your thoughts. This is a place where we come to learn from each other. I am so glad that you found us.
Sweet Lissa
Welcome to Biblical Families. I hope that we can be a support system for you. I hope that you will feel free to ask questions and give your thoughts. This is a place where we come to learn from each other. I am so glad that you found us.
Sweet Lissa
Tammy,
I noticed that you said you were busy with school. Are you a teacher? Or attending school? I ask because I have recently gone back to college to get my bachelor's degree and ultimately I want to get my MBA. It would be nice to have that in common.
Anyway, I am so glad that you found us.
Sweet Lissa
I noticed that you said you were busy with school. Are you a teacher? Or attending school? I ask because I have recently gone back to college to get my bachelor's degree and ultimately I want to get my MBA. It would be nice to have that in common.
Anyway, I am so glad that you found us.
Sweet Lissa
Hi lissa No I am not a teacher, actually I am a student. I am going for my bacholor degree for my RN. My mom and dad are both RNs, I guess I am following in there footsteps. I have always been a person that likes to help people and I have always found the human body fasinateing. So I guess it was just natural. I put my education to the side for a while and my husband told me that is was about time I follow god's calling for my life. at least I hope and feel that is ware the lord wants me right now. So what are you studying right now? Me personally the medical terminology is really driving me crazy. But at least I can say I still have a 4.00 average. So pray that I can keep all this in my head. well I will write later nice hearing from you again.
shepherdgirl
New Member
Hi there!
I enjoyed your story. I paricularly find the fact that You are so excited to welcome another wife to your family pretty neat.
I do hope it all works out according to the Father's plan!
I enjoyed your story. I paricularly find the fact that You are so excited to welcome another wife to your family pretty neat.
I do hope it all works out according to the Father's plan!
Thank you shepardgirl, It is very nice to meet you too. I love my sisterwife to be very much. But we are taking it slow due to the fact that she is very close to her family and she does not want to lose them as she puts it. All I know is that I am leaving it in gods hands, if this is his will, then his will be done.
skeeterdan
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Hello; I am Dee, I am just curious and have always been I admire you all so much I am a lonely woman and married, but now conversations; I have watched so much on tv about this situation; and it interest me even more; I wish I were as happy as the women I have seen on these programs; love is so meaningful to me; I have so much love to give; but have always been afraid I was too old; for a change; I am 63 going on 40; my love for others keeps me young. if i am chattering on it is because I really don't know what to say; except I do so admire the Poligamy groups. just ole dee aka skeeterservantgirl
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Hi, how is everyone? I am very new having just registered to the group today but I have been reading here since the summer. I live in Hampton Roads, VA and work as a teacher and counselor. I have five children: a girl aged 11, and four boys aged 12, 14, 15, and 17. I enjoy designing and collecting miniatures as a hobby and I am in school right now pursuing an advanced degree. I have an affinity for the polygamous life in that I do believe in female submissiveness to her husband and in his right to pursue marriage with other women. I am currently in a relationship with a man who also believes in this principal but it is long-distance. I am going through a divorce right now having been separated for many years from my ex due to abuse. Right now in life I am just focusing on being happy and appreciative of my blessings, God's wonderful gifts, and the miracle of waking each day to another chance to enjoy living on God's miraculous world. I spent many years dwelling on unhappiness and feeling low self-esteem and depression and now that I look back I cannot believe I wasted so much of my life away in that manner. I am very excited now about living and doing and experiencing all I can in life, but I also feel anxiety because I am afraid something will snatch it away now such as illness as happened to my mother who died of cancer at age 63. So I am happy and trying to do things and seek out people, situations, ideas, decisions, etc. to keep it that way to show God my true appreciation for all He has done for me. I love Him so. I also love my male friend so very much and I am very blessed to have him in my life, as well as my children and all the other blessings. I am even happy for negative things at this point because I want to cherish every bit of living even the parts that are painful, frustrating, or difficult. Well, take care everyone.
Dear Servant Girl,
Thank you for your introduction. Welcome to our board. We are glad you found us. Please read all you can and ask any questions that you like.
Sweet LIssa
Thank you for your introduction. Welcome to our board. We are glad you found us. Please read all you can and ask any questions that you like.
Sweet LIssa
Dear Skeeterdan,
I am so happy that you have found us. I hope you will participate in our discussions. Everyone has something to say and while we aren't all in 100% agreement all the time, we are all working toward similar goals.
Take care and let us know if we can help.
Sweet LIssa
I am so happy that you have found us. I hope you will participate in our discussions. Everyone has something to say and while we aren't all in 100% agreement all the time, we are all working toward similar goals.
Take care and let us know if we can help.
Sweet LIssa
Hello, Lissa,
This is Mrs. Kscouple. I am married, with 2 teen-age daughters. I love to cook and read. We grow a large garden every summer. Taking care of my family is my biggest focus in life, but I also have a job that I really enjoy at an assisted living facility. The elderly people there are like an extended family to me.
My husband and I have been looking for a sister wife for a while. He is really a very caring person. I know he is well able to handle loving two women. It just has to be the right woman. We have met several who did not work out and we've learned lessons (some painful) from each encounter.
We just discovered your web-site a few days ago and are glad to find like-minded people to talk to and get advice from. I do have quite a few questions that I'll probably ask you in a more private setting. God bless you for being there.
Love, Mrs. Kscouple
This is Mrs. Kscouple. I am married, with 2 teen-age daughters. I love to cook and read. We grow a large garden every summer. Taking care of my family is my biggest focus in life, but I also have a job that I really enjoy at an assisted living facility. The elderly people there are like an extended family to me.
My husband and I have been looking for a sister wife for a while. He is really a very caring person. I know he is well able to handle loving two women. It just has to be the right woman. We have met several who did not work out and we've learned lessons (some painful) from each encounter.
We just discovered your web-site a few days ago and are glad to find like-minded people to talk to and get advice from. I do have quite a few questions that I'll probably ask you in a more private setting. God bless you for being there.
Love, Mrs. Kscouple
ermlivestrong
New Member
Hi! I feel very invited and welcomed here and am also very happy that I found this site. I live in the beautiful mountains of Va. I am a massage therapist. I play a few instruments myself! (flute, guitar). I love being outdoors and I also work in a cave. I love to go deep sea fishing. And I love children and animals. I am a 25 yr old woman who is not married 
but I am looking for that one family that the Lord wants me to be with. Any advice as to wear I can meet any? I have dated one in paticular and the husband was all for it but the wife wasnt so I immediatly backed off. Its actually really hard to find a serious, good and honest family! Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks for the warm welcome.
ERM
but I am looking for that one family that the Lord wants me to be with. Any advice as to wear I can meet any? I have dated one in paticular and the husband was all for it but the wife wasnt so I immediatly backed off. Its actually really hard to find a serious, good and honest family! Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks for the warm welcome. ERM
My advice is to get to know the board. We have several families looking as well as some singles looking to find the first Ms. Right. But the better you get to know us the easier it will be. Also, look at the retreat schedule and see if you can work one into your plans. We have lots of fun at these and you never know who you will meet and what the Lord will do. I have been to 3 retreats so far and each has been a wonderful experience. The retreats are full of good old fashioned fun, Worshipping the Lord and strengthening our fellowship and our faith.
Sweetlissa
Sweetlissa
Baby Lissa,
After viewing this site for three months, I finally posted a topic on the Martin Luther discussion today. I'm embarrassed to say, but I was watching Big Love and was curious about learning more about polygamy. This site is very informative--thank you.
I'm a secretary for a Lutheran church, and this lifestyle is totally against polygamy. If my Pastor knew I was interested in this site, I'm afraid what would happen to my position. From the recent discussion on this site earlier, I found out that the founder of my religion wasn't orginial against polygamy. I'm not sure when the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod (my denomination) changed it's view.
Anywho, I think about your lifestyle often. The hardest thing for you ladies must be how the children react to your arrangements? I could understand if they were brought up this way, but to try to change something midstream that must be hard on them. How do you handle those issues?
What does the quote buttom mean on this post a reply screen. I'm new to posting. This is the first site I've every been interested in posting. Normally, I just read what others have to say.
God's Blessings,
Michelle
After viewing this site for three months, I finally posted a topic on the Martin Luther discussion today. I'm embarrassed to say, but I was watching Big Love and was curious about learning more about polygamy. This site is very informative--thank you.
I'm a secretary for a Lutheran church, and this lifestyle is totally against polygamy. If my Pastor knew I was interested in this site, I'm afraid what would happen to my position. From the recent discussion on this site earlier, I found out that the founder of my religion wasn't orginial against polygamy. I'm not sure when the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod (my denomination) changed it's view.
Anywho, I think about your lifestyle often. The hardest thing for you ladies must be how the children react to your arrangements? I could understand if they were brought up this way, but to try to change something midstream that must be hard on them. How do you handle those issues?
What does the quote buttom mean on this post a reply screen. I'm new to posting. This is the first site I've every been interested in posting. Normally, I just read what others have to say.
God's Blessings,
Michelle
oops! I meant to address this to Sweet Lissa
Michelle
Michelle