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Meat Limits of Christian rules

MemeFan

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I do sense that people here consider Christianity, sort of, magical. Just do rules and everything will be fine in sense that society will be great. I don't include personal tragedies and similar things.

Really? Did we forget to think?

A) Paperwork compliance

I believe I say truth is I say that nobody loves bride price as @Otto. But, will introducing bride price in current Western societies fix anything? For real?

You mean man will send some money to bank account owned by her father, then she will withdrawn money to pay for "marriage ceremony" which will finish with round of hot sex. In the morning she will do photo session with another man as proof of her "sexual immorality" and he will sign divorce papers.

I do hope you will love how bride price has made prostitution mainstream.

If people don't like rules, consider then useless or whatever, what you will get is "paperwork" compliance. They will do just enough so they can say they then did law, while absolutely breaking spirit of law.

B) Doing rules with spirit, still sucks.

I have recently posted thread "Why Christianty failed" and before that "Church hating male sexuality"

No society is desirable society if male sexuality is hated and/or man can't get wife. Why would any man want to remain member of such society? There is no reason.

I do remember story where in some Catholic village none of fathers found existing young men good enough for their daughters. Those men were forced to go outside village and convert women just to get wife.

There are no biblical rules directly stopping such insanity.

C) Great thanks to anti-Biblical ban

If you read Leviticus 18, you will find Lord is fine with cousin marrige (with some exceptions). Yet, sex/marriage with cousins is even more taboo than polygyny.

In short, today Catholic Church has around 7-9 century succeded in forbidding cousin marriage. Why that matters?

Because cousin marriage creates clan society where members of same clan are BFFs, while rest can be robbed..

There are ways to stop this. Rome, Ancient Greece and Islam (somewhat) did created functional communities greater than clan/tribe.

Clan does function as social welfare (retirement, heathcare, uneployment insurance). Without clans, Western Europeans did created voluntary institutions to replace clans which helped created modern world.

Those voluntary institutions did massively raise size of society (from several 100k max to millions) creating wealth, science... Plus they also blocked long term tyrannies in West.

D) Obedience to Lord as goal

I think we should focus on creating functional Christian society, rather than obedience.

I do sense that some commands can only produce good results if rest of society isn't insane.

To make analogy.

Have you heard of monk mode? Historically it was good idea for man to cut social activities to work on wealth and physique in order to increase his chance to find wife in next few years. Today, this is stupidity.

Before nobody could build business without going outside. So man was forced to at least keep his social skills, if not to improve it. Now, thanks to TV, games and social media people aren't spending times together so much. So he risk total loss of social skills thanks to self-isolation. Wealth and physique are useless if he becomes creep.

To conclude, how good are those rules now? In this moment? I don't believe we can just blindly copy them and always expect good results.

To make clear, I do think we should keep spirit and intent of rules.
 
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I think we should focus on creating functional Christian society, rather than obedience.
People won't be judged by what anyone thinks is functional; each will be judged according to his or her obedience to God. Learn the lesson from I Samuel 15:22: So Samuel said: “Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, As in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, And to heed than the fat of rams.

To conclude, how good are those rules now? In this moment? I don't believe we can just blindly copy them and always expect good results.
Elevating the rules and regulations men make above what God has said has never been a good idea. That's what began in the Garden and it hasn't changed. When the religious leaders commanded the apostles to do something contrary to what God commanded, they said, We ought to obey God rather than men (Acts 5:29).
 
If you read Leviticus 18, you will find Lord is fine with cousin marrige (with some exceptions). Yet, sex/marriage with cousins is even more taboo than polygyny.

In short, today Catholic Church has around 7-9 century succeded in forbidding cousin marriage. Why that matters?

Because cousin marriage creates clan society where members of same clan are BFFs, while rest can be robbed..
There’s nothing wrong with cousin marriages. It strengthens the family, and brings people together. Part of marriage is about alliances - Solomon understood that very well - but unfortunately it resulted in marrying pagans (which Adonai forbids).

Catholic Church is pro state - meaning - the interests of the state come first. This is the main reason priests can’t have wives. This is the main reason men can’t multiply wives. All these things hurt the state.
 
I believe I say truth is I say that nobody loves bride price as @Otto. But, will introducing bride price in current Western societies fix anything? For real?
Yes - if it includes the backing of the state. People obviously don’t love the Lord (Why do you call me Lord, and not do what I say?). Only fear of punishment will keep this wicked generation from sinning. If there is a mandatory bride price for any boy or man that sleeps with a virgin - and if he can’t afford it - which results in jail-time - which boy or man will risk sleeping with a virgin without intention of marriage?

Women are holding back marrying young - because the world allows them to sleep around with boyfriend after boyfriend with zero punishment. If they can no longer find a man to sleep with them (outside of marriage) - they “WILL” seek marriage much earlier (after high school) - and it’s a strong possibility - they will even better accept polygyny in order to marry the best man possible. Today - they don’t need polygyny - because they can already sleep with the best man - and then move on to the next - and the next - and the next - until they realize they aren’t as attractive as they were at 18 - and look for some simp to marry (and likely eventually divorce and come out big - because let’s face it - most of these whores will miss dating the high value men - and the fact the state rewards them for divorcing their husband - is just the icing on the cake).
 
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