The Adam did it for love narrative is something the church (everyone I've been to) has tried shoved down my throat. It's the root of the Disney fairytale theme, your not supose to let anything come between you and your one true love.
Here's my understanding.
When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it had a pleasing appearance and that the tree was desirable for making one wise, she took some of its fruit and ate. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her; and he ate. [Adam was did not use his G-d given authority to stop her. I reject the churches explanation that she later found Adam and shared it. That he wasn't actually there. That's not what is said.]
Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized that they were naked. So they sewed fig leaves together to make themselves loincloths.
They heard the voice of ADONAI, G-d, walking in the garden at the time of the evening breeze, so the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of ADONAI, G-d, among the trees in the garden.
ADONAI, G-d, called to the man, "Where are you?"
He answered, "I heard your voice in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, so I hid myself."
He said, "Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree from which I ordered you not to eat?"
The man replied, "The woman you gave [to be] with me - she gave me fruit from the tree, and I ate." [Refused to be accountable for the Authority G-d gave him]
ADONAI, G-d, said to the woman, "What is this you have done?" The woman answered, "The serpent tricked me, so I ate."
ADONAI, G-d, said to the serpent, "Because you have done this, you are cursed more than all livestock and wild animals. You will crawl on your belly and eat dust as long as you live. [The serpent was still with them]