While most of your positions make a lot of sense in the natural, what you aren’t factoring in is the spiritual side of reality.
On the spiritual side I presume I would be more open to letting the man lead. I guess I would go to what church he goes to etc. Although.....if he goes insane and decides to join the Jehovas Witnesses, or become a Hutterite or something....no. Communism is not for me.
The bottom line is that often women will rule via the power of the dark side when they think that they are being logical.
I do have a bit of Sith in me! I think in the Star Wars universe I would be a grey Jedi, one who can dip into the dark side without succumbing to it. Mace Windu was a grey Jedi, hence his purple saber, a mix between the Jedi blue, and the Sith red blade.
That said, I will still happily put my basic wrenching and fab skills against yours and perhaps wager a bit on a drift focused lap or so.
I have wrenching skills, but not really fabrication skills. I have played around with a metal 3D printer we have at a company.
Rules are no sissy crap made after about the mid sixties
You would consider modern cars like the Porsche GT3 sissy? I would disagree. Or a modern electric car like a Porsche Taycan which can be literally painful if driven aggressively, with the way it combines acceleration with braking, and cornering speeds. Your head gets thrown around, front, back, left, right.
But I like a 1960s Lotus Elan.
Most import question though is do you know the basics of auto maintenance and can you pull off the Rosie the riveter look?
Silliness aside, men do like it when they can share an interest with woman that is traditionally a male baliwick.
Happily my wife is the type to have pitched in when I was modding my model T several years ago (even doctored the wound when I got my leg stuck to the exhaust) and will likely jump in on the current GPW project which is on the slate now.
I know maintenance.
It was sad when some idiot Youtuber rolled a Model T down a hill some months ago. That was a car that survived two world wars, drove people to weddings etc. only to be destroyed for laughs.
For sex, as mother, as companion, someone to make jokes, food preparer.
I like cooking, however in out house it is more a group effort, since often the stuff we make is to complex for one person, so often someone does the Entrée, someone the main dish, someone the dessert.
My specialty is a filet in a balsamico brown sugar sauce as a main dish - The difficult part is the sauce, if not boiled enough it is to acidic, boil it to long and you have a sugary mess - and tarte tartin.
And 2/3 years younger men can still beat you.
Male teenager is well able to manhandle adult women.
If at the same fitness and training level as me then I would have to concede yes, however I am quite fit. I spar with boys my age, I win some, I lose some.
As women you will find husband and more girl friends by being feminine.
I can be feminine if I want. I often have my hair in braids for example.
You can't win dominance fight against man if he is feeling OK.
You are literally asking for taming screw treatmeant on honeymoon, if not before.
I have mentioned my love for gardening, and interest in chemistry. A quite lethal combination of interests.
Why are you collecting enemies? Friends come and go, while enemies accumulate.
Which is why one should always burn bridges down behind you.