Things in the Bible do appear complex until God's Spirit clarifies them. Then we find they are actually simple.
I hope you find the book answers your questions. Shalom.
I hope you find the book answers your questions. Shalom.
, and all shall be well.
and all shall be well.
, and all shall be well.
@Slumberfreeze , by the fourth "...and all shall be well", I was laughing out loud. HAHA! Fantastic., and all shall be well."
OMG! I love this post. I'm jumping on the couch and Moriah is looking at me like Oprah looked at Tom Cruise. Fantastico!Why is Divorce so easy in the Bible?
I'm just going to be flippant and say "Because of the hardness of our hearts". I mean, you can delve deeper and look for the symbology of it all... but to my mind any answers you're going to find aren't going to be any more profound than the answer that came straight from the lips of Jesus. It is made easy because mortal, unregenerate man could not contain or develop the kind of love and patience that it would take to have actual unconditional love for a wife in whom uncleanness is found.
Then comes the question, does only the man have that right? What if, Exodus 21:10
“If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.” is not honored by the husband. What can the wife do about it?
Noooothing? And as for why he has that right, well if men and women are pictures of Christ and the Church (as I believe we are told that they are in Eph. 5) then He certainly has the right to put away the Church (although He never would), but the Church has no such authority. If the Church believed that Christ is treating them unfairly (as certain saints who doubled as lion chow may have briefly considered), should there be any recourse for them? Of course not. To suffer for Christ is our glory (as certain saints who doubled as lion chow actually testified). Therefore I hold that as far ads the Law goes, the greater Truth behind the entire picture is what gives the picture it's details.
And if she does get a divorce granted, is she forever bound to have to live by the lack the law was established to prevent?
So therefore my answer to this question is to deny the assertion that the primary reason this Law was established was the welfare of individual women (le gasp!). If I want to be consistent, then the reason this Law was established is to assure us that God's Covenant with Israel remains intact even though he has taken on the gentile bride of the Church; or perhaps more closely: That Jesus will provide for Laodicea that which is her portion, even though Smyrna clearly needs it much more. But I might be talking out of school...
If one doesn't take my view of things, then I'll re-address the question
And if she does get a divorce granted, is she forever bound to have to live by the lack the law was established to prevent?
That's one "if" too many IMO. There is no provision in the law for a woman to ask for a divorce for any reason. Deut. 4:2 prevents us from making any other law than that which we are given. Deut 24:1 tells us when a man may issue a certificate of divorce and "at her request" is not it. Therefore a woman who believes her husband is acting unlawfully who asks for a divorce is asking him to do something unlawful. Blaming any part of the fallout of that on the law that is being totally disregarded is unworkable. Were I to give legal advice to a Jewess of the congregation whose husband has recently married and decreased the portion of his first wife I would say:
"Tell your husband his fault and see if he will hear you. If he not, then go to thy father and tell him of your situation. Thy father should then bring your case before a judge and plead your case against your husband. The judge who feareth God will see the wickedness done in Israel and make your husband to lie down in his presence to be beaten with a number of stripes according to his guilt. Then your husband shall increase your portion, and all shall be well. Or, your husband will find you displeasing for having him beaten in public and issue you a divorce, in which case you may remarry and all shall be well. Or your husband will be wroth with you and send you away without issuing you a divorce paper, in which case your father may bring your husband before a judge and have him beaten a second time, and on and on until the matter is resolved, and all shall be well. Or your husband will kill you, and the congregation will hear of it and stone him to death, and all shall be well."
I mean none of this pertains to righteousness or a happy home, but whatevs, if we were after that we wouldn't be in the law at all...
IC, what do the rabbis say about equitable issues in marriage? Surely there has been discussion over the past few thousand years re how to handle abusive situations. Otherwise, Slumber's whole parody there is sort of funny but essentially pointless.
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But, in contrast, it appears, that to end a marriage it is rather simply. Write on a piece of paper, I DIVORCE YOU and hand it to the wife. (With that also could be included, does that have to be court ordered state sponsored divorce, or just a piece of paper.)
I understand that the reasons for the divorce are complicated and left up to ones interruption of the Word for them, but the fact is, right or wrong, correct of incorrect, the Word of God specifically says, to get a divorce all a man has to do is write it on a piece of paper and hand it to the wife.
If you read on, the torah answers your question. It indicates that if the husband is negligent in these requirements the first (and by extension others in line before a new one is added)Then comes the question, does only the man have that right? What if, Exodus 21:10
“If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.” is not honored by the husband. What can the wife do about it?
This seems like an inappropriate public question to ask here. If you want to ask Sam in private such a thing please us Private Messaging....
Samuel, I am aware that you are a wannabe polygamist like most of us here, but have you ever been divorced?
Just in case folks don't know this, as beautiful as the "woman caught in adultery" story is, this story is marked as "unreliable" in the critical apparatus of the Greek text.My view is that without a good understanding of Grace one can't really understand the Law. The First Covenant was given to prove that man can not follow the Law, and the the Second Covenant was give to show God's Grace because he can't.
And so did the the woman caught in adultery. In her case, first the Law was not honored by the men who accused her, and they offered grace, then the Ultimate Law Giver did not follow His own Law and gave her Grace as well.
Grace trumps Law.
This seems like an inappropriate public question to ask here. If you want to ask Sam in private such a thing please us Private Messaging.
If someone is or is not divorced does not affect the biblical interpretation anyway so I don't see how such information can help your quest for understanding of the application of the text.
Gotcha.The worst marriage counselors are ones who have never been married. My original question is based on trying to find practicality in today's world. I have been divorced, and believe others who have been would benefit from views held by others with the same experience.
In any event, I look forward to reviewing the information you have provided. I do see valuable information in regards to the Word and your interpretation.
Great advise. Do you have examples of what they have that they would voluntarily give?Gotcha.
The verse you quote is very interesting though and I owe the modicum of forward progress in my own plural marriage to this command.
The verse reveals that we are NOT to treat our wives equally as muslims teach but that the order in which they are married is to guarantee them time, things, etc. which can not be reduced when we add others. I think for the younger guys who are as of yet unmarried who wish to have a plural marriage; they would do well to consider this verse and "hold something back" from their future first wives so that they will not have to break this commandment in the future when they add a second, third, etc.
The ideal model IMHO is when the earlier wives out of love for their sister wives voluntarily give up some of what they have (time, things, etc) for the newer wife/wives.
The point is that it is THEIRS to give.