I believe the majority of BF men fall into this category me included. We must PREY and wait on the Father. He told David all you had to do is ASK, and ask we must do.
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I believe the majority of BF men fall into this category me included. We must PREY and wait on the Father. He told David all you had to do is ASK, and ask we must do.
Pray and prey, huh!
So true @Edward
There’s a strength or aura if you will about a solid, godly, Spirit filled, praying man. No doubt the Praying Man will know what he’s praying for. God answers our prayers according to His will and He has been known to give us the desires of our heart as Edward said, ask.
Also, seek and knock
umm, dating sites,lol.
There’s a strength or aura if you will about a solid, godly, Spirit filled, praying man. No doubt the Praying Man will know what he’s praying for. God answers our prayers according to His will and He has been known to give us the desires of our heart as Edward said, ask.
Also, seek and knock
umm, dating sites,lol.
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Daniel, yes pray and pray. You might not like the answer, but we must pray.
The father knows what we can and cannot do better than we do, but sometimes we do ignore him and headaches ensue. Yes I would love to have another wife, but not at the expense of my home. I have peace, I have joy, I have Harmony and I pray that I listen to the Heavenly Father closely in this matter because it's not to be taken lightly, and definitely not to be rushed.
All I know is 3 1/2 years ago when I brought this subject up to my beautiful bride the look on her face said a lot and if I would have rushed then I can just about 100% guarantee I wouldn't be where I'm at today.
Today my beautiful bride is on board I'm not saying it's easy for her and I'm not saying it's easy for me especially after being HAPPILY married to one woman for 27 years.
So yes Daniel pray. My wife just walked by and sang pray Daniel pray
and prey, right? LOL
No problem, neither does she.
Great post! I know you imply it pretty strongly but it bears repeating that what you describe is a picture of the garden. She wants control, and he wants her enough to give it up. These are our root temptations.
Dating sites has essentially become vehicles for women to get attention and affirmation. They are great at that. Even if the site has 50:50 sex ratio she's going to be inundated with messages. And she can get that affirmation without ever responding to any of the messages. And the ratio is far worse on poly sites. But as far as actually pairing up people, there is too much noise for the average guy to make a connection with women. It does still happen, but less and less so as time goes on. And it becomes a negative feedback loop where as fewer men make real connections they have to send more messages, further raising the noise level. And that's without adding in the problem of catfishes, bots, scammers, sex-workers and the like.
Not a problem for her, but of course it does not honor God.
It was not a plig dating site as such but the now defunct polygamy site I met Lili on is proof of a couple of things
- You cab potentially meet someone good online
- I know it is hard to believe but there really are a few young and pretty (as in wow pretty) women out there searching the internet for a potential plural family
The actual plig focused sites seem like a waste of money and a source of frustration for couples hoping to find another wife. The polyamory sites might in theory have women interested but my experience with that crowd is that they are primarily just rebranded degenerate swingers.
I am not entirely sure how we would go about the process if we were ever looking but I am pretty sure it would be pointless to try the existing sites.
- You cab potentially meet someone good online
- I know it is hard to believe but there really are a few young and pretty (as in wow pretty) women out there searching the internet for a potential plural family
The actual plig focused sites seem like a waste of money and a source of frustration for couples hoping to find another wife. The polyamory sites might in theory have women interested but my experience with that crowd is that they are primarily just rebranded degenerate swingers.
I am not entirely sure how we would go about the process if we were ever looking but I am pretty sure it would be pointless to try the existing sites.
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But you do participate in the these sites, correct?
Hand waggle.
I went on sisterwives for a couple of months in hopes of meeting more plig families but explicitly stating that we were not looking for another wife at this time. Oddly we got a fist full of supposed women contacting us and plenty of fakes. The supposed women were clearly looking for ego strokes and so forth rather than plural families.
I went on sisterwives for a couple of months in hopes of meeting more plig families but explicitly stating that we were not looking for another wife at this time. Oddly we got a fist full of supposed women contacting us and plenty of fakes. The supposed women were clearly looking for ego strokes and so forth rather than plural families.
I think a lot of women in apostate Christianity have simply not even thought about Polygyny and there are plenty of potentials in regular dating sites. The problem being most these women have no idea what marriage is, they don’t acctually want a righteous husband and they have been loaded with curses, demons and children that are not willing to release control of.
I would tend to guess you would be better off finding a quality wife amongst the homeless, drug addicts and prostitutes. some of them tent to become really Solid people after accepting Christ.
I would tend to guess you would be better off finding a quality wife amongst the homeless, drug addicts and prostitutes. some of them tent to become really Solid people after accepting Christ.
She was attracted to the way I was treating Angela! Then of course since her name is Angelina, or something like that, she really dug her, "she" and "her" being interchangeable, I suppose.LOL, she was totally more into you than into me.
They seemed to hit it off!
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