Example of monogamy-only damage

[frederick]

I think any wife would have a pretty good idea of what her husband approves of in this area, and saying "well he didn't technically say not to do that" is the sort of excuse I could imagine a child using to justify something they know full well the answer would be "no" to if they asked.

Supposition and speculation. This seems to be another of those situations where one party claims a wrong has been committed when there is nothing Scriptually sinful with what has been done. But I have no axe to grind here so I'm out. Cheers

 

[steve]

This conversation is incredibly surreal.
More so than our exceptionally high standards.

 

[MemeFan]

Ah, that makes more sense, thanks for the translation! The statement is still incorrect, but at least it isn't insane!

@theleastofthese has done right translation.

 

[MemeFan]

Pretty interesting perspective. I initially rolled my eyes at this post and never came back to it. Now I realize the depth of the subject goes beyond the wife lying or being a "shit wife."

I was wondering where are ladies of forum. Nice to see you showing up.

As you pointed out, there really is no such thing as lesbianism according to scripture, and if i'm correct, the one verse I can recall that could possibly refer to it, doesn't specifically mention it. Therefore, what makes this act cheating or adultery? No man other than her husband was involved, and adultery is clearly defined as a wife sleeping with a man other than her husband, with no mention of women.

Cheating and adultery as per conventional definition, not biblical.

This really shows how brainwashed society is and how far we've come from what's actually written and condemned.

Current society is more than brainwashed. We are now washing in brainwash and being gaslighted.

At the end of the day, if this excites you as a husband instead of offending you, you're really doing nothing wrong... regardless of your experience or lack thereof.

Thanks.

 

[MemeFan]

Supposition and speculation. This seems to be another of those situations where one party claims a wrong has been committed when there is nothing Scriptually sinful with what has been done. But I have no axe to grind here so I'm out. Cheers

Here we are talking about sexual fidelity. There are wows about this when entering marriage. There are no misunderstandings.

And highly possible this is secular situation.

 

[theleastofthese]

Nice to see you showing up.

Thank you

I was wondering where are ladies of forum.

They're probably hiding as far from the "lesbian" conversations as possible

 

[Meritxell Vinyet]

I had another thought

I wonder if lesbian "sexual activity" might be comparable to men french kissing other men .

I can't think of a Bible verse that explicitly tells men not to French kiss other men.

"You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination." (Leviticus 18:22 NKJV)

Clearly homosexual anal intercourse is prohibited, but it doesn't say anything about men standing or sitting and French kissing each other.

It's still a nasty, disgusting, worthless, stupid, and gay thing for men to do. We certainly wouldn't approve of it.

I haven't read the full thread, but french kissing among men would seem to be wrong for righteous people- the "slippery slope" argument- men should develop different skills to lead a community, not learn how to kiss other men.

 

[Mark C]

Damn, that was gross. I don't even want to hit 'reply' and have it copied...

 

[MeganC]

Damn, that was gross. I don't even want to hit 'reply' and have it copied...

X2 on the eeewwwwww!!!

 

[AmorInVeritate7]

What if the man doesn't want to take the other woman? What if the other woman is a raging feminist or some nymphomaniac slut?

I wouldn't be happy with my wife if she brought home a dog without my permission. Bringing home a servant would be even more serious. A wife? Without my permission or charge for her to go and find me one? Very much out of line.

I agree that moving forward the man could just take them both. I could even say that after what the wife has done this is probably the best way for her to try and ask her husband's forgiveness. But this was not a situation that is okay. It has little to do with lesbianism or adultery or trust as compared to as much as it has to do with authority.

I agree with this. If I were in this woman's shoes, I would let my husband know I wanted to make a bond with her and he would also have time to use his discernment with getting to know her as well.

The act of hiding what she did was a red flag. Either his wife could show forgiveness and repent, talk it over even with all parties involved. But lying once will make any man wary.

As far as the husband suffering the symptoms of monogamy only has been terrible for most who are just fighting their true nature.