Women don't think the way that we do. This meme had a transactional concept of win-win, which makes sense logically speaking, but we aren't negotiating with other dudes here! A better concept would be taking into consideration what the women, especially the first wife, truly wants. She wants the security of knowing that her husband is not trading her in for somebody better. She wants to know that he will always love her no matter what. She wants to know that just because he has a new wife, he won't forget about her. She wants a man who knows what he wants in life, and that is not just to have more wives and babies. Does he have real goals and ambitions, or is he just a go along to get along type of man? As men, we are happy when we get a high score, or in golf, a low score, because we tell ourselves that we have improved on who we are in that endeavor. Our wives do want to see us succeed at something, but unless you are in the stratosphere of say a Magnus Carlsen or Hikaru Nakamura, achieving a high ELO score in chess, for example, isn't going to move the needle for most women. Unless you are in the stratosphere of Phil Mickelson, they don't really see why their husband spends his entire weekend, playing golf! They want to see us focus our efforts on being the best at what we are most capable of being the best at. That husband, is the man that she can be proud of.