Me no hip like you.This might be one of those YMMV situations...
What does this mean?
I searched the urban dictionary but I'm still not sure I get it.
Me no hip like you.This might be one of those YMMV situations...
Mileage as in results. What works for husband A, may not work for husband B.Your
Mileage
May
Vary
I vacuum, mop, sweep, dust and organize the cleaning schedule of my home that the whole house is expected to follow. I don't have a problem getting sex.
Not sure about others.
In Paul's first pastoral epistle to Timothy (much of these epistles relate to leadership) he encourages the continuous development of the spiritual disciplines, noting that physical disciplines only profit for a while.
Whether you're a monogamist, aspiring polygynist, or a polygynist, and you're more concerned about anything other than your spiritual discipline first, you will find life to be difficult. The right kind of woman will admire you for this. If she doesn't, maybe she's not a good fit.
What's that have to do with my comment?
Or to dial it in a little more....putting a frilly apron around your fat ass and doing the dishes won't make her feel more amorous. But leaving them all to her while you go to pump iron will. When she's gone soft feeling up your guns it won't matter to her that you spent 6 fewer hours a week 'emotionally bonding' and 'warming' her up.
You might not have needed a frilly apron for that, but maybe a bonnet?Well, I scrubbed the ceiling in the kitchen today, that Sarah cannot reach. And I'm about to take her to bed. She looks happy. Whatever.
That one verse, which is the ONLY verse in all of Scripture that talks about looking at a woman, is really only talking about looking at married or betrothed, or divorced women.Which, for me makes more sense that the man was told not to look to lust, because that’s what usually gets them, the looks of a woman. I think women are feelers.
That one verse, which is the ONLY verse in all of Scripture that talks about looking at a woman, is really only talking about looking at married or betrothed, or divorced
That's exactly what I told Samuel last night! Working together to get a task done, with him doing parts that I couldn't, was a wonderful bonding experience.I love working with him outside and on job sites, for some reason it just makes me feel closer and more bonded when we work together. Him being buff or fluffy has NO bearing on the attraction I feel for him. It’s the bonding.
Exodus 20:17 is another. The issue of the maid servant specifically identified here in addition to the neighbor’s wife also opens the issue of a young woman born as a servant into his house as well as one bonded in. It becomes important because theres another passage that identifies a woman betrothed but unconsummated as a rhea ishshah (neighbors wife) also. Which means that theres a subtle overlap in terms that we have to be careful not to cross.That one verse, which is the ONLY verse in all of Scripture that talks about looking at a woman, is really only talking about looking at married or betrothed, or divorced women.