And this ^ is total ignorance according to both Exodus 21:10,11 and Leviticus 6:2-8
If a soul sin, and commit a trespass against the LORD, and lie unto his neighbour in that which was delivered him to keep, or in fellowship,†or in a thing taken away by violence, or hath deceived his neighbour;
[All of these apply to a man who has gained a wife through her fathers assistance]
Or have found that which was lost, and lieth concerning it, and sweareth falsely; in any of all these that a man doeth, sinning therein: [This applies to a daughter separated from a covering]
[And the remedy for his trespass against his neighbor and daughter]
Then it shall be, because he hath sinned, and is guilty, that he shall restore that which he took violently away, or the thing which he hath deceitfully gotten, or that which was delivered him to keep, or the lost thing which he found,
Or all that about which he hath sworn falsely; he shall even restore it in the principal, and shall add the fifth part more thereto, and give it unto him to whom it appertaineth, in the day of his trespass offering.
If he wanted to take his case before a bet dien and present his case, and lost, he would then be required to pay her ketubah which amounted to 200 zus and add 20% to that. If he was guilty and knew it, it was better for him to either let her go without strings, or try to reconcile the marriage without getting the courts involved.
I don’t see any restrictions in Exodus 21:11 on the freedom. In their culture, the judges said she was free just as if he’d never Covenanted with her. Her status was that of a single woman without requiring a ‘get’ (written divorce) even if she’d born children . . . . and they left with her.
A guy that tried to fight it and was found guilty of not providing food, covering and marital duties would have been considered a Torah breaker, a covenant breaker (adulterer) and worse than an infidel at best. At worst, he’d have been declared cut off from Israel, thus considered dead under the law and she’d be free anyway.
Obviously, we’ve been thru this before. I really see no reason to hash this one out on this thread. I’m obviously fine with you guys holding your point of view, cause that leaves more candidates for me, and it really doesn’t affect my life or beliefs. Obviously there’s an underlying reason why this topic strikes a nerve. Might wanna check up on that.
Toodles.