• Biblical Families is not a dating website. It is a forum to discuss issues relating to marriage and the Bible, and to offer guidance and support, not to find a wife. Click here for more information.

What is fornication?

Okay, so what is fornication? Well most of the time we see fornication used in our English Bibles it is the translation of the Greek word porneia. There may be exceptions. I haven't made an exhaustive search. Now you may recognize this word porneia, or it at least should sound familiar. You probably ran across it when you were reading articles and jokes in some magazine you can't recall the name of. Some of us know it from pornography or porn. But what does it mean? Well it doesn't mean "sex before marriage."

The consensus, and I know the risk I'm taking when I say that here, is that it means something like "prohibited sexual acts." It's not defined anymore than that. Now I know this isn't the Hebrew roots section but the only exhaustive list of prohibited sexual acts is in the Old Testament. Since they aren't listed out anywhere in the New we must refer back to that list to find out what porneia is.

This isn't just an academic question. When the Apostles sent Paul out from Council of Jerusalem the list of rules they said gentile believers had to follow was VERY short. The sexual laws were reduced to some version of "abstain from fornication(porneia)." You see what happens if fornication only means "don't have sex outside or marriage". A whole host of things become permissible, including bestiality and incest which is not mentioned in the New Testament. It's patently ridiculous that the Apostles would have told the gentile believers that the only thing they had to do was not have sex outside of marriage. That didn't even begin to address a whole host of things like homosexuality and incest. Think about it you could have just "married" your sister and been fine. It's silly.

So there you go, I believe the word translated as fornication is pointing us back to The Law for the list of sexual sins and has nothing to do with the unlisted sin of "sex before marriage." Feel free to share your opinions.
Hey @NickF , forgive the snark in this, I was some kind of mood at the time. But despite the extraness it’s the best argument against fornication meaning sex before marriage.
 
Back
Top