Here we go again.
If we keep using correct rules of logic, conclusion must be true. Ideally, starting point is axiom whose refutation proves axiom or axiom which is obviously true.
I can start with axiom that parents influence marriage decisions of their children. This isn't case when parents are dead or parents/children don't speak. I won't take such cases in consideration since they aren't topic. If parents influence their children, then key question is how much influence is proper? Only disagreements possible here is how much is proper.
Another question which needs answer is who is final decision maker? In current culture it is daughter, but author of thread proposes (
@NVIII ) that father is final decision maker. OK, now it is time to consider implications what will happen when father is final decision maker.
Ludwig von Mises was able prove that socialism doesn't work doing something obvious. Then in 1910s, 1920s economists with social leaning have claimed that in centrally planned economy everything will be wonderful, scarcity will disappear etc... What is important is that they have never mentioned how socialist economy will actually work. Mises has actually checked mechanisms how socialist economy will work and he has found it wanting.
Let's check actually mechanism of father being final decision maker. Time for some game theory.
If father and daughter agree, no problem. But what if they disagree? That is key question.
If there is no punishment for daughter, then in practice, father isn't final decision maker. It is same situation as unenforced law. It is toothless order. So in this situation, daughter is final decision maker. So father must punish his daughter enough for her to change her mind in other to stay final decision maker. So, what is proper punishment? Is it obvious that punishment can go into what is abuse. But any father who believes that he is final decision maker must answer this question: How to get daughter to accept man which she doesn't want. GO guys
I'm truly interested in your answer. This is real possible situation.
There is assumption hidden in previous paragraph. Father can choose any man according to his will. Possible change is to give veto power to daughter. Father will choose according to his will any man not vetoed by daughter. But then he can't choose any man. Is that OK? What if daughter vetoes best choice according to father? What if daughter vetoes anyone till only remaining is what daughter originally wanted? In this case father practically stops being final decision maker.
People of this forum, it is time to leave proclamations and get in real world. It is time to think how this will really work in real world and find workable solution before somebody reading this forum destroys his daughter's life with some avoidable idiocy.
EDIT: Grammar correct, easier to read.