Every man must marry as it is a Law. "To be fruitful and multiply (Gen. 1:28) (CCA43)."You are not allowing space to 'do as God tells you'. You have a plan you want to force on your children that may be the opposite of God's plan. He has individual ideas for all of us, and what His plans are for one person are not what His plans are for another.
If God tells your son to go be a missionary overseas, or to never marry and be focussed on Him only, would you have your son obey God and do as He tells him to? Or to follow you?
G-d's Plan is Every man to be His Servant and Teach G-ds Word what you do for money is less important as long as it don't break G-ds Laws.
I Personal Believe Paul is saying Every Bishop and Deacon must be a husband of 1 Wife to mean just like in Judaism.
You have a:
(Young Man) 13 "He just became a man and has a lot to learn"
(Grown Man) 20 "He has grown and became strong but is not Whole yet."
(Complete Man) Married "He is whole"
(More Developed Man) Has more than one wife.
All Men and Adults
Most Young men don't marry because they can't support their Wife/Wives, but a Man who is married is a much fuller in Himself.
Women are G-ds Gifts to Men if they Obey G-d and their Husbands and Men are Gifts of G-d if he is with a G-d Fearing, Obeying Man.
Lets build a garden that our children only for Kosher and Organic Fruits to Pick from and their seeds will Remain in G-d!
But if you plant your seed into other grounds your seeds will become corrupted and fall off.
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